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Introducing ME+EM’s Chelsea Flower Show Garden
DESIGNED BY VIRIDITAS STUDIO

Introducing ME+EM’s Chelsea Flower Show Garden

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Chelsea Flower Show sounds the klaxon for the official start of British summer, when the best horticultural minds of this green and pleasant land gather in London to show off their talents. Such is its impact that for at least this week even the least green-thumbed amongst us suddenly becomes gripped by growth patterns and floral species. 

This year we’re particularly invested, thanks to our very own ME+EM balcony garden, artfully designed by Viriditas Studio, founded by Caroline Clayton and her brother Peter. Caroline’s past life in the music industry working with the likes of Dua Lipa has made her especially empathetic to the toll a fast-paced urban life can take on women. Having made the switch into garden design for a more balanced and sustainable life (literally and metaphorically), she’s now using her craft to create a retreat in the city, a multifunctional space for busy women to reset and recoup. 

Ahead of Chelsea Flower Show’s opening this month, we spent a glorious spring day with Caroline in her idyllic Somerset home to get a sneak peek at what she’s got growing on for our balcony garden, learn about her inspiration behind the design and talk about the career move that changed everything. 

What was your inspiration for the ME+EM balcony garden?

The inspiration was a woman who wanted to create a space to unwind and relax, turn off from technology and just take a moment to pause in a city. I really wanted that person to feel like they're surrounded by nature. We wanted a space that she was actively gardening, not just a bunch of evergreens that stay the same the whole year round. It's about taking time to grow and nurture seedlings, to have cut flowers which you can bring into your home.

One of the other things that was really important was that it was multi-functional, just like ME+EM’s clothes. We've really thought about that in the way that she will use the garden. So we've made a bespoke day bed that fits really perfectly into the small space and it's designed to be exactly the right size to sit cosily with a friend, you can sit and meditate, it's perfect for reading a book - it's got lots of different uses. 

Where did you start with the design?

One of the things that I find really relaxing is texture and the way that light interacts with it. So rather than really thinking about the design, I was thinking more about the material palettes and the way that sunlight will fall - this balcony is west-facing, and so you get the last of the light at the end of the day. One of the things I really love about ME+EM’s clothes is the materials and I wanted to echo that in the garden.

What do you hope people will take away from the garden?

I think that when people think of a ‘feminine garden’, they always think of a cottage garden and everything kind of very old, like wrought iron - really, really traditional. I wanted to show that you could use really natural, traditional materials, but in a way that feels much more modern and contemporary, but it still has a softness and a femininity to it. 

You’ve taken your career from commissioning music videos to garden design. What inspired the leap?

I'd been in the music industry since I was 19 and I always loved it, but it was a million miles an hour. I remember it got to the point where I realised I didn't really have a circadian rhythm because I was traveling so much. I was living out in L.A., my mum passed away and I met my partner at the same time, so I moved back to London and it was just a very intense time, I felt like my system was completely overwhelmed. 

It was Christmastime, and we were in our apartment on Old Street roundabout. And I just was looking at the Christmas tree, and I started to feel calmer; it took me to a completely different place. I realised that it was nature that was calming me down, so I started to seek it out in the city. When I became pregnant with my son, I realised that my lifestyle was completely unsuited to children. I kept coming back to the idea of being surrounded by nature and having that as part of my daily life; I wanted to do something where I really felt like I was enhancing the world around me for people, but also for wildlife as well.

The slow reward of gardening is the antithesis of the pace of the music industry. 

Yes. With music videos, you literally have a day, two days to create something. And with gardens, it's usually at least a year from the point of meeting the client to the garden being finished. I'm an extremely, extremely impatient person and gardening forces you to slow down. But even in the slowness of it is this real alchemy where suddenly you see this tiny little green bit that's a millimeter high...and so actually, even though it is really slow paced, it's amazing how quickly nature grows and changes and makes something that feels really barren, suddenly really green. 

Do you get your kids involved?

Yes - my son in particular actually is really, really good. And neither of them eat that many vegetables but when they grow them themselves they're just shoving them in. They just eat so much more than they ever would do if I was forcing it into them at the table. One thing that I found about moving down [to the country] is having them understand where the food comes from has been really, really great. Seeing it grow from a seed - it's like alchemy, it's magic. 

Do you have any advice for how people without a garden can enjoy that connection with nature?

For me, it started with houseplants - don't underestimate the power of houseplants. And you don't have to just have a cactus on a window. You can get clips to tidy wires for your desk and stick them up the wall to train the plants up the wall - you can literally make it like an indoor jungle. And if you've got any outdoor space, even if it's a really small outdoor space, you could get a grow bag and grow tomatoes or carrots, or even herbs - just having things that you can smell and where there's different textures makes a massive difference. 

BBC / RHS People’s Choice Award

If you would like to vote for ME+EM’s balcony garden in the BBC / RHS People’s Choice Award, you can do so through the BBC or via the QR code found at Chelsea Flower Show. Voting is open from Tuesday 20th May until 7pm Thursday 23rd May. The winner will be announced on Friday 24th May live on the BBC at 7pm.

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